Had my baby at 37 weeks due to mild preeclampsia?

first off how exciting! congrats congrats cant wait to see my little man too!! got some time now tho lol....i tore with my daughter ....and stiches no not fun it took me about 4-5 weeks after to feel like ok i feel better but there were still 1 or 2 stiches ...not until 6 -6 1/2 weeks did all my stiches dissolve...the shower part didnt hurt me ...well of course to wash down there was but i just took a wash cloth and patted the area ...iw as nervous to use soap with like scents in them so i bought the generic and just get rougher and rougher ...one thing that i found that was super soothing to the area was them shower heads that lift off the nozzle thing and u can run the warm water down there .......