Can a stripper, my wife, really change?

I would say yes unless she gives you a reason not to trust her. Just because she misses things about the job, it does not mean that she will go out and do that behind your back. If she promised you, trust her and let her know that you appreciate that sacrifice. I know she's a stripper, but she may miss the attention that is given to her. For example, I go out and dance all the time at bars...I love dressing up and looking pretty. I also love guys noticing me. My husband goes along and LOVES that because he can say that I'm his. When guys look at me, he goes on the dance floor with me just to smear it in their face. Anyways, the point is that it could be that she felt beautiful. I know it's superficial but women need to feel pretty sometimes.